Frequently Asked Questions

About Queer Pleasure Collective

  • Queer Pleasure Collective is a Telehealth therapy practice founded by Sam Textor (they/them) — Practice Director, Principal Sexologist and Specialist Social Worker. It's a space for queer folks, fat folks, and anyone the mainstream system has overlooked to access affirming, shame-free support around sexuality, identity, body image, relationships, and mental health.

  • Anyone seeking affirming, shame-free support. Sam has a particular focus on queer and LGBTQIA+ folks, fat and larger-bodied individuals, and neurodivergent people — though all bodies, backgrounds, and relationship styles are welcome. If you're not sure whether this is the right fit, book a free Discovery Call and we can work it out together.

  • No. While queer and fat communities are central to the practice's purpose, Queer Pleasure Collective warmly welcomes people of all sexualities, genders, body sizes, and backgrounds.

  • All sessions are delivered online via Telehealth. You just need a private space and a stable internet connection, and you can access support from anywhere in Australia.

About Therapy

  • Psychosexual therapy is a form of counselling that focuses on sexual concerns, intimacy, and the relationship between emotional wellbeing and sexuality. It's talking-based and never involves physical examination or contact. It can support a wide range of concerns, from sexual pain and low desire, to shame, trauma, identity, and relationship dynamics.

  • Not at all. Many people come to therapy simply wanting to understand themselves better, deepen connection, or explore something they've been curious about. You don't need to be in crisis to deserve support.

  • I take an eclectic, evidence-informed approach; drawing on CBT, DBT, ACT, Narrative Therapy, Somatic Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Schema Therapy, Attachment Theory, and more. Each person's experience is tailored to what they actually need.

  • That depends entirely on you and what you're working on. Some people find a handful of sessions really helpful; others prefer ongoing support over a longer period. We'll figure out what feels right together, there's no pressure or predetermined path.

  • Completely understandable, and very common. The free 15-minute Discovery Call is a great way to dip your toe in without any commitment.

Practical Questions

  • Head to the Book Now page. You can book directly online through Cliniko, 24 hours a day. Just choose your appointment type and a time that works for you.

    • Discovery Call (15 minutes, FREE)

    • Initial Appointment (50 minutes, $160)

    • Follow-Up Appointment (50 minutes, $130)

    Longer appointments and subsidised rates are available on request.

  • Sessions are not currently covered by Medicare or Private Health Insurance. If cost is a barrier, please reach out (subsidised rates are available).

  • You'll receive an automatic confirmation email with your Telehealth link, and intake form for new clients. Complete the intake form before your first session, it should take about five minutes and helps me understand where you're at before we meet.

  • After each session, you'll receive an invoice via email. Payment is made securely through Stripe, just click the link. Your card details are encrypted and never shared Queer Pleasure Collective.

  • Please cancel or reschedule at least 48 hours before your appointment. Late cancellations and no-shows may incur a fee, though this can be waived in the case of genuine emergencies.

  • Yes. Confidentiality is fundamental to the therapeutic relationship. There are some legal and ethical exceptions (such as when there is a serious risk of harm to you or someone else) — Sam will explain these clearly at the start of your work together.

  • Queer Pleasure Collective is not a crisis service. If you are in immediate danger, please call 000. For mental health crisis support:

    • Lifeline: 13 11 14

    • Beyond Blue: 1300 22 4636

    • QLife: 1800 184 527

    • 13YARN: 13 92 76