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for all bodies & all folks

Get to Know Sam (they/them)
Practice Director, Principal Sexologist, & Specialist Social Worker
Sam is the founder of Queer Pleasure Collective — a space created to support queer and fat folks in exploring pleasure, identity, and connection without shame. As a pleasure and connection specialist, Sam provides radically-inclusive support to help people feel at home in their bodies, reconnect with joy, and live their fullest, most authentic lives. Their approach is gentle, trauma-informed, and grounded in intersectional, pleasure-centred care.

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Queer
Affirming
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Trauma-
Informed
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Neurodivergent Inclusive
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Prioritising
Pleasure
Services & Offerings
Individual Therapy
Psychosexual therapy and general mental health counselling, tailored to meet you where you are. Sessions provide a safe and affirming space to explore intimacy, relationships, identity, and wellbeing, grounded in evidence-informed and inclusive practice.
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![so hypothetically—
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Ready to work together? 💌
If you’re interested in exploring pleasure, identity, or connection in a radically-inclusive space, I’d love to hear from you. You can email hello@queerpleasurecollective.com.au or schedule a FREE 15-min initial call via the link in bio.
Disclaimer: This content is for educational and entertainment purposes only. Social media is not a substitute for therapy, and engaging with this account does not create a therapeutic relationship. DMs are not monitored for support or professional advice. If you’re seeking help, please contact a qualified professional or crisis service.
[Image description: The words “Me the first time I hear a new kink: ewww gross I could never. Me the third time hearing about it: ...” in orange font on a beige background.]](https://scontent-iad3-2.cdninstagram.com/v/t51.82787-15/625621462_18073120757573096_3020408276037393014_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=100&ccb=7-5&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiRkVFRC5iZXN0X2ltYWdlX3VybGdlbi5DMyJ9&_nc_ohc=vp1C-E7VPM4Q7kNvwEzqv8U&_nc_oc=Adm_pKFK2rRHQ9SWYyuajeRkADSFYmdAT16PSdjt7cSIOwTNAPb6-lCF5Ew4jOSdv8M&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent-iad3-2.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=5eUYMN7DULjlxp8Dc2nWPQ&_nc_tpa=Q5bMBQHhSMGvoUab1taaHhcBbxvqTT3lGwfiQCx4vTErAPUKNDZRfpOcVoassvhr0ETjSeJrsFtNs8Df&oh=00_AfvO2II3DB7Mp7WduBeG-S6EG7ViZCbusZS1__QTBcOcZQ&oe=69A5EB48)
![Holding space > finding solutions 🫶🏻
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Ready to work together? 💌
If you’re interested in exploring pleasure, identity, or connection in a radically-inclusive space, I’d love to hear from you. You can email hello@queerpleasurecollective.com.au or schedule a FREE 15-min initial call via the link in bio.
Disclaimer: This content is for educational and entertainment purposes only. Social media is not a substitute for therapy, and engaging with this account does not create a therapeutic relationship. DMs are not monitored for support or professional advice. If you’re seeking help, please contact a qualified professional or crisis service.
[Video description: Sam is sitting in the home office talking to their phone camera. They are wearing a white singlet, a green cap, and glasses. There are words on the screen in white/black font.]](https://scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com/v/t51.82787-15/639717701_18074820518573096_3608607615921496067_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=107&ccb=7-5&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiQ0xJUFMuYmVzdF9pbWFnZV91cmxnZW4uQzMifQ%3D%3D&_nc_ohc=cDQqJb4-N9cQ7kNvwEdhMfg&_nc_oc=Adlmxk9G0lPMOpAiUj2Zz7e7GaoPXB_8aOgvRXjqKuX2z8v7yF7vuGmmBzeqFYxslkw&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=5eUYMN7DULjlxp8Dc2nWPQ&_nc_tpa=Q5bMBQG5RROwDrjgOlgn3Aj6Mtmv1meN3zQoDGrkz5poV258B7AhHzN4k5LgxI_om1XXVfW2xGkYRpww&oh=00_AfvPKqZvRkK8GZYfVJdkEg14kWKMzZsk925_CrqqB1fnqA&oe=69A60A1C)
![holding onto queer joy with both hands at this point
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Ready to work together? 💌
If you’re interested in exploring pleasure, identity, or connection in a radically-inclusive space, I’d love to hear from you. You can email hello@queerpleasurecollective.com.au or schedule a FREE 15-min initial call via the link in bio.
Disclaimer: This content is for educational and entertainment purposes only. Social media is not a substitute for therapy, and engaging with this account does not create a therapeutic relationship. DMs are not monitored for support or professional advice. If you’re seeking help, please contact a qualified professional or crisis service.
[Image description: The words “queer joy is political. it’s radical, it’s survival.” in beige font on an olive green background.]](https://scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com/v/t51.82787-15/626294530_18073120592573096_4127655823329285790_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=107&ccb=7-5&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiRkVFRC5iZXN0X2ltYWdlX3VybGdlbi5DMyJ9&_nc_ohc=lGrfAMmvggcQ7kNvwGfSziA&_nc_oc=AdkR3bo7LJuvLc-yNOoUJe_A4TS9xvyxJmgqF0irFbi_h8ocaoRH45F4kSd256QZ3BA&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=5eUYMN7DULjlxp8Dc2nWPQ&_nc_tpa=Q5bMBQHU5UEso4-1GWOcUGL7Wc27G07JUnlSbqJ2FW-ssFwR046sWBlSBUms_3Q0-_euKcmHoylthtmc&oh=00_AftwNMI1f-C6GmNOfM0m30kT_OpWk_QVbEGGYiBUCh81hg&oe=69A5ED69)
![and that’s on that xx
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Ready to work together? 💌
If you’re interested in exploring pleasure, identity, or connection in a radically-inclusive space, I’d love to hear from you. You can email hello@queerpleasurecollective.com.au or schedule a FREE 15-min initial call via the link in bio.
Disclaimer: This content is for educational and entertainment purposes only. Social media is not a substitute for therapy, and engaging with this account does not create a therapeutic relationship. DMs are not monitored for support or professional advice. If you’re seeking help, please contact a qualified professional or crisis service.
[Video description: Sam is standing up talking to their phone camera. They are wearing a white singlet and black shirt, glasses, and have curly brown hair. There are words on the screen in white/black font.]](https://scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com/v/t51.82787-15/639694200_18074701505573096_6326690615685450458_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=107&ccb=7-5&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiQ0xJUFMuYmVzdF9pbWFnZV91cmxnZW4uQzMifQ%3D%3D&_nc_ohc=icX-i60hxZ4Q7kNvwF0Ljz-&_nc_oc=AdkLgSr-0j-lLUNCK7aXEtngkMcUSsh2tvJT-K0VzitZVlBwzR9Am4lJ67hzM05Mw04&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=5eUYMN7DULjlxp8Dc2nWPQ&_nc_tpa=Q5bMBQFWfJELIH8KpS667vAEsMrWxn7ER-HOz1T64_G4Pvqzl6cF-nqcvw6duwWtlJ08CwQna0q1D3XF&oh=00_AftHeEwY1SLoU5_nyuiHLD6bEudMJoKgHIqRFWbam7MJNw&oe=69A5E4A2)
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Ready to work together? 💌
If you’re interested in exploring pleasure, identity, or connection in a radically-inclusive space, I’d love to hear from you. You can email hello@queerpleasurecollective.com.au or schedule a FREE 15-min initial call via the link in bio.
Disclaimer: This content is for educational and entertainment purposes only. Social media is not a substitute for therapy, and engaging with this account does not create a therapeutic relationship. DMs are not monitored for support or professional advice. If you’re seeking help, please contact a qualified professional or crisis service.
[Image description: The words “a world without trans people has never existed and never will” in orange font on a pale blue background.]](https://scontent-iad3-2.cdninstagram.com/v/t51.82787-15/627875684_18073120349573096_7531436228196194315_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=105&ccb=7-5&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiRkVFRC5iZXN0X2ltYWdlX3VybGdlbi5DMyJ9&_nc_ohc=Nd-b1LD3fqoQ7kNvwFcQwEH&_nc_oc=AdnooVVZcIASxaM0mV_oV4gq-HGzw0q06A9ui9_0E10_oTg5hAWB06jk6Q3o3xn-6pE&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent-iad3-2.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=5eUYMN7DULjlxp8Dc2nWPQ&_nc_tpa=Q5bMBQHhGAjsehC12mWIrfEAHQ26yfPRaRjtBRKFp8QYwk9AwRcWOl0cD6GAuajStUjrUru3fEoUokh1&oh=00_AftqdMD6AlF9gPQc3P8I_pD6zvOibf5pcJjfk0bcDgJwWg&oe=69A5E7DE)
![My body informs, but it doesn’t lead…
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Ready to work together? 💌
If you’re interested in exploring pleasure, identity, or connection in a radically-inclusive space, I’d love to hear from you. You can email hello@queerpleasurecollective.com.au or schedule a FREE 15-min initial call via the link in bio.
Disclaimer: This content is for educational and entertainment purposes only. Social media is not a substitute for therapy, and engaging with this account does not create a therapeutic relationship. DMs are not monitored for support or professional advice. If you’re seeking help, please contact a qualified professional or crisis service.
[Video description: Sam is standing up talking to their phone camera. They are wearing a white singlet and striped shirt, glasses, and have curly hair. There are words on the screen in white/black font.]](https://scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com/v/t51.82787-15/639813950_18074701541573096_506369947535049248_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=102&ccb=7-5&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiQ0xJUFMuYmVzdF9pbWFnZV91cmxnZW4uQzMifQ%3D%3D&_nc_ohc=itOVRb9qx0oQ7kNvwHV-IaC&_nc_oc=Adnh_mlzpDddl6xJpw0qKWiKdFDoZKLrSgY9cb5Uj1lBRPpiBIxobs3EO_qR5eRJQT4&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=5eUYMN7DULjlxp8Dc2nWPQ&_nc_tpa=Q5bMBQHu7iO9A9b7PwdvtiFn6iMn8isqMpjaVH4n0gprfaA6mtrEtfHZnfaN2gAL4Wk2F-XK5duiTLM1&oh=00_AfsCAS5SYtA9Y4L553NElzn_SPqtrCqMgC2YJs9ybWe-9Q&oe=69A5ED84)
![showing up as *you* matters more than you think!!!
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Ready to work together? 💌
If you’re interested in exploring pleasure, identity, or connection in a radically-inclusive space, I’d love to hear from you. You can email hello@queerpleasurecollective.com.au or schedule a FREE 15-min initial call via the link in bio.
Disclaimer: This content is for educational and entertainment purposes only. Social media is not a substitute for therapy, and engaging with this account does not create a therapeutic relationship. DMs are not monitored for support or professional advice. If you’re seeking help, please contact a qualified professional or crisis service.
[Image description: The words “being your authentic self can give someone else permission to do the same” in beige font on an orange background.]](https://scontent-iad3-2.cdninstagram.com/v/t51.82787-15/629747790_18073120169573096_5169194631666760075_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=100&ccb=7-5&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiRkVFRC5iZXN0X2ltYWdlX3VybGdlbi5DMyJ9&_nc_ohc=OButgtzrJu0Q7kNvwHmjo7Z&_nc_oc=AdnkWXwZIUPrPofciTToA5tALhzfzCmsoqgBmvq9vOKMDMDNfE9eLDlr_GTOavZv_cA&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent-iad3-2.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=5eUYMN7DULjlxp8Dc2nWPQ&_nc_tpa=Q5bMBQG553ux7ACkvVXTqcryVJ9_RYMD9OkkNUttDdYltF1kqB1NJgLsr9t1XAuZOMkFnLCX90zI5cAp&oh=00_AfuUuhR8aWrQfcqi3_sB0sdBU9KBi5DUAFhLBDxgwFvXUg&oe=69A5E181)

![taking up space is not a crime !!!
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Ready to work together? 💌
If you’re interested in exploring pleasure, identity, or connection in a radically-inclusive space, I’d love to hear from you. You can email hello@queerpleasurecollective.com.au or schedule a FREE 15-min initial call via the link in bio.
Disclaimer: This content is for educational and entertainment purposes only. Social media is not a substitute for therapy, and engaging with this account does not create a therapeutic relationship. DMs are not monitored for support or professional advice. If you’re seeking help, please contact a qualified professional or crisis service.
[Image description: The words “stop apologising for existing in a body that takes up space” in orange font on a beige background.]](https://scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com/v/t51.82787-15/626298955_18073119857573096_1921122072790973114_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=107&ccb=7-5&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiRkVFRC5iZXN0X2ltYWdlX3VybGdlbi5DMyJ9&_nc_ohc=NydQZFeM35MQ7kNvwF5GGqx&_nc_oc=AdmrQKNPglVBRuh7v6yNjnYFb7uTrHTg3oiTHASee0KsJAZOLJ7bsmgjBNUrMn4ILbM&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=5eUYMN7DULjlxp8Dc2nWPQ&_nc_tpa=Q5bMBQEVLRJBLFjbBhL4ZQZdJprEEMqIq5156AYbM2smPX9BNRixYB97Wg3T0DTS5HTU_EKsirQ-5dMB&oh=00_Afuu2nAnZwcUxL5QmbZNEEUGcFItSeMu8OurkWGGtwD5_Q&oe=69A60030)
![You’re. Not. Broken.
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Ready to work together? 💌
If you’re interested in exploring pleasure, identity, or connection in a radically-inclusive space, I’d love to hear from you. You can email hello@queerpleasurecollective.com.au or schedule a FREE 15-min initial call via the link in bio.
Disclaimer: This content is for educational and entertainment purposes only. Social media is not a substitute for therapy, and engaging with this account does not create a therapeutic relationship. DMs are not monitored for support or professional advice. If you’re seeking help, please contact a qualified professional or crisis service.
[Video description: Sam is sitting down talking to their phone camera, their cat is also slightly in the frame. They are wearing a white singlet, a green cap, and glasses. There are words on the screen in white/black font.]](https://scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com/v/t51.71878-15/627500850_1586972099169785_2460012611976536815_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=107&ccb=7-5&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiQ0xJUFMuYmVzdF9pbWFnZV91cmxnZW4uQzMifQ%3D%3D&_nc_ohc=rEey2Wcs3gwQ7kNvwHvNOi-&_nc_oc=Adm3NXKMn-3jvFUKUue5xzNe3TIV67Jk82JQTLUs22kQMamFS41M-4xgHv_W52OwVnA&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=5eUYMN7DULjlxp8Dc2nWPQ&_nc_tpa=Q5bMBQFB3nuZMYYD9nQgnFlO_St2oApt3LVKG3a2uIavUwCoQo9-eJjpTyiFYt5r4QBpgNwlVxN5jxBo&oh=00_AfsY91bXiTLX1iKyHp5nmvlG3yQAvGBIG8V7VYBN1iux7Q&oe=69A5FC7E)
![a humble request 😇
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Ready to work together? 💌
If you’re interested in exploring pleasure, identity, or connection in a radically-inclusive space, I’d love to hear from you. You can email hello@queerpleasurecollective.com.au or schedule a FREE 15-min initial call via the link in bio.
Disclaimer: This content is for educational and entertainment purposes only. Social media is not a substitute for therapy, and engaging with this account does not create a therapeutic relationship. DMs are not monitored for support or professional advice. If you’re seeking help, please contact a qualified professional or crisis service.
[Image description: The words “tired of touching myself, someone come do it for me” in beige font on an olive green background.]](https://scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com/v/t51.82787-15/629657439_18073119566573096_3012112818741742443_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=104&ccb=7-5&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiRkVFRC5iZXN0X2ltYWdlX3VybGdlbi5DMyJ9&_nc_ohc=rXq5kmQ90L0Q7kNvwEZzbaQ&_nc_oc=AdkPekqwsCIu25IxM-9Ldd9bPW7lhvElpKa_bYF6Gr9QYkCeBEWqooNqmkw8kx0-EPQ&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=5eUYMN7DULjlxp8Dc2nWPQ&_nc_tpa=Q5bMBQEDuuvTP8Keh1QvRmonBW_J1k_r5DzN53Cr3D8Bkm3cXo5pXMUbX0YAK3zfYylyxad4agK--TiX&oh=00_AfvasFxmbShg4lyldy145jo8drp2_ISpY97vToVoRnmxww&oe=69A5F30A)
![skill + care = good therapy imho
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Ready to work together? 💌
If you’re interested in exploring pleasure, identity, or connection in a radically-inclusive space, I’d love to hear from you. You can email hello@queerpleasurecollective.com.au or schedule a FREE 15-min initial call via the link in bio.
Disclaimer: This content is for educational and entertainment purposes only. Social media is not a substitute for therapy, and engaging with this account does not create a therapeutic relationship. DMs are not monitored for support or professional advice. If you’re seeking help, please contact a qualified professional or crisis service.
[Video description: Sam is standing up talking to their phone camera. They are wearing a white singlet and black shirt, glasses, and have curly brown hair. There are words on the screen in white/black font.]](https://scontent-iad3-2.cdninstagram.com/v/t51.82787-15/629270379_18073572773573096_1963808460322700882_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=100&ccb=7-5&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiQ0xJUFMuYmVzdF9pbWFnZV91cmxnZW4uQzMifQ%3D%3D&_nc_ohc=_mS-FBJK8agQ7kNvwGeswAO&_nc_oc=AdlZG3dSuodBMPf_Qdz0d_aYUEo1JuKLHvd-Tm-WnqMpE8gJ7F2CQrxxgIzEGbzE2Mc&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent-iad3-2.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=5eUYMN7DULjlxp8Dc2nWPQ&_nc_tpa=Q5bMBQEgqk800Z59ka67MZp1oKoV1-ZNuWH-uoD8HfSQkkIe2_E5xGZsNqXlWrhqY2Fpnk6z7-lOSARS&oh=00_AfuGTaFj1acfEDejoBB30pJF3zMdPI5J-RmshHOWOjFyHw&oe=69A5FF3D)
![Anti-fat culture teaches us to delay care until we’ve “earned” it.
This is a lie, rest is not conditional 😴
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Ready to work together? 💌
If you’re interested in exploring pleasure, identity, or connection in a radically-inclusive space, I’d love to hear from you. You can email hello@queerpleasurecollective.com.au or schedule a FREE 15-min initial call via the link in bio.
Disclaimer: This content is for educational and entertainment purposes only. Social media is not a substitute for therapy, and engaging with this account does not create a therapeutic relationship. DMs are not monitored for support or professional advice. If you’re seeking help, please contact a qualified professional or crisis service.
[Image description: The words “rest belongs to fat bodies too” in orange font on a pale blue background.]](https://scontent-iad3-2.cdninstagram.com/v/t51.82787-15/626302560_18073118744573096_1468928612630842747_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=103&ccb=7-5&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiRkVFRC5iZXN0X2ltYWdlX3VybGdlbi5DMyJ9&_nc_ohc=23hK76Ahmc0Q7kNvwEaPHBN&_nc_oc=AdncDB_wCF4jJIzzkLBSnbhRrk1NF9wz5L9beLegNgxAbk_ud7hIqD_y0ogt-LifTpU&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent-iad3-2.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=5eUYMN7DULjlxp8Dc2nWPQ&_nc_tpa=Q5bMBQHkrTEsmrXknz0OG496VxtfrrgjCdlhbsDkNoav0M73_XN1mVAqiUz5v0T_M9z8aIgVbRAccRJb&oh=00_AftwIjAjkGC_GjKvy-nu8ITKNZy2S0F-5B8RN0QhXnLjqg&oe=69A60FFE)
![What does pleasure even mean in the current state of the world?!
[Video description: Sam is sitting down talking to their phone camera. They are wearing a white singlet and striped shirt, glasses, and have curly hair. There are words on the screen in white/black font.]](https://scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com/v/t51.71878-15/627427589_3733806610089317_967382265630996407_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=109&ccb=7-5&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiQ0xJUFMuYmVzdF9pbWFnZV91cmxnZW4uQzMifQ%3D%3D&_nc_ohc=gvgpWon16-4Q7kNvwH486J9&_nc_oc=AdkJGYUOiTeYA-mL6EN1sBU34_i9Omi8hQ_YmnTlbaHq1IXmozBQfBu_yVpZtsS5bXQ&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=5eUYMN7DULjlxp8Dc2nWPQ&_nc_tpa=Q5bMBQGHCGyhfGiEtW_Eb-4E1PlTVADC33cy5OpQ48sOf9Oa6ToISqiT9LgHRuRWod1CKs6ROwUdZfdD&oh=00_AfuHjKdmHdF_NUQzsJBfM7b3K0gLrKQxAVUJzoakmsrMEA&oe=69A61288)
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[Video description: Sam is sitting down talking to their phone camera. They are wearing a white singlet and striped shirt, glasses, and have curly hair. There is a greenscreen background with words in white/black font.]](https://scontent-iad3-2.cdninstagram.com/v/t51.82787-15/629365529_18073389659573096_7565734350410963930_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=100&ccb=7-5&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiQ0xJUFMuYmVzdF9pbWFnZV91cmxnZW4uQzMifQ%3D%3D&_nc_ohc=tUMrv1IqyX0Q7kNvwG_gAT-&_nc_oc=Admderg2f-sPOm_QqCd-Hp8PJkjkU7pEKLVAQnJlwMgwjTlZViExdpo4gcT5UYxMxp8&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent-iad3-2.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=5eUYMN7DULjlxp8Dc2nWPQ&_nc_tpa=Q5bMBQGRad8VJS_ce1NYGe5an2XG_QQNw9y3kKR5wC5gQEu-yMDuXhUzZFY8jos56f4DFQeOZi0-UXNr&oh=00_AfsIJ4dh35hoYeKaY8ZSqQbiEKy94sOMa6rOlrTFB6rFdA&oe=69A6019C)
![sorry about it 😏
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Ready to work together? 💌
If you’re interested in exploring pleasure, identity, or connection in a radically-inclusive space, I’d love to hear from you. You can email hello@queerpleasurecollective.com.au or schedule a FREE 15-min initial call via the link in bio.
Disclaimer: This content is for educational and entertainment purposes only. Social media is not a substitute for therapy, and engaging with this account does not create a therapeutic relationship. DMs are not monitored for support or professional advice. If you’re seeking help, please contact a qualified professional or crisis service.
[Image description: The words “like, once you’ve figured out you’re gay, each year you level up to a gayer version of yourself” in beige font on an orange background.]](https://scontent-iad3-2.cdninstagram.com/v/t51.82787-15/610834226_18070315637573096_1447497038444757031_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=100&ccb=7-5&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiRkVFRC5iZXN0X2ltYWdlX3VybGdlbi5DMyJ9&_nc_ohc=mYuho6hUgwIQ7kNvwH2vY9-&_nc_oc=AdnRwLwWNOBqB0bHyIiN6U-V-AEyiV8AvQaUOp589JBGhLATsMAIU4fd3XIn9sJ3Y24&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent-iad3-2.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=5eUYMN7DULjlxp8Dc2nWPQ&_nc_tpa=Q5bMBQGZBzBbHJIf0Zh3zvZddlRcbs9shWKn3Q3FJ5cGLIDHuyZ9PUXa_OCDqfi5D1ts4gWJ9gkyLeLx&oh=00_Afuo7-24Wl2FeHlQ3Mbgh77WEMjbPtTwAYVFOdFORrxQVw&oe=69A5E58A)
![PSA: Coming out isn’t a compulsory a rite of passage, queer people are valid whether they choose to share their identities or not.
Living authentically in a world that assumes everyone is cis and straight can be exhausting. For many queer people, “coming out” isn’t a one-time thing, it’s ongoing. But have you heard of the reframe to “inviting in”?
Inviting in gives queer people the power and choice to choose who they want to share their identity with. This can remove the overwhelming connotations of repeatedly coming out, and supports the idea that sexuality and gender identity are yours to share if and when you’d like.
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Ready to work together? 💌
If you’re interested in exploring pleasure, identity, or connection in a radically-inclusive space, I’d love to hear from you. You can email hello@queerpleasurecollective.com.au or schedule a FREE 15-min initial call via the link in bio.
Disclaimer: This content is for educational and entertainment purposes only. Social media is not a substitute for therapy, and engaging with this account does not create a therapeutic relationship. DMs are not monitored for support or professional advice. If you’re seeking help, please contact a qualified professional or crisis service.
[Video description: Sam is sitting in the home office looking at their computer screen. They are wearing a black t-shirt, a cap, and glasses. There are words on the screen in white/black font.]](https://scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com/v/t51.82787-15/612169494_18070315535573096_8092724656541680579_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=102&ccb=7-5&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiQ0xJUFMuYmVzdF9pbWFnZV91cmxnZW4uQzMifQ%3D%3D&_nc_ohc=skMzRIy_4swQ7kNvwGnqKwW&_nc_oc=Adl8hJ5jTIxsO101ywErkZlB4IuKt06mVpTqZgKJ7HkAgFzpvmtUv3GUebftw-bS3Rs&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=5eUYMN7DULjlxp8Dc2nWPQ&_nc_tpa=Q5bMBQFxJrG8Bd1tOqAsSAFDHmu44STewXe8Py1vm-IgW8hselA751t5A2X4vY2QUm8DRGBIb6SVyl-A&oh=00_Afu7JcbYcsSEx3wWl0J4kKLBgq6pvHU2XxhMuSiTmFZN6w&oe=69A5E2FE)
![not that you need another ins/outs list, but 2026 is for being soft, honest, & hottttt
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![how you’ll find me in 2026 xx
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