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Get to Know Sam (they/she)

Sam is a Sexologist & Specialist Social Worker who provides radically-inclusive therapy to empower queer and fat folks to thrive. With a passion for supporting individuals in navigating sexual wellness, body image, queer identity, and general wellbeing, Sam is a pleasure and connection specialist dedicated to helping people live their fullest, most authentic lives.

ABOUT

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Queer

Friendly

02.

All Bodies

Welcome

03.

Neurodivergent

Affirming

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Trauma-

Informed

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Prioritising

Pleasure

Individual Sexology Sessions

Tailored one-on-one sessions designed to explore and support your unique needs around sexual wellness, body image, intimacy, and relationships. These sessions provide a safe and affirming space to navigate challenges, embrace pleasure, and build a deeper connection with yourself and others. Book online here.

Workshops & Courses

For individuals and groups, workshops explore topics like sexual wellness, body neutrality, and queer identity, empowering participants to embrace pleasure and connection. For health professionals, courses focus on building skills in inclusive, affirming, and culturally-responsive practices to better serve diverse communities.

Soft Body Club

A welcoming community space for fat and plus-size folks to celebrate their bodies, cultivate self-compassion, and connect with others. Through group discussions, activities, events, and resources, Soft Body Club nurtures body neutrality, pleasure, and radical self-acceptance. Launching soon!

Join The Community

Stay in the loop with monthly(ish) updates about appointment availability, upcoming workshops & courses, and resources I’m loving. No spam, just the good stuff to keep you informed and connected!

and that’s on thattttt

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The internet just loves to remind us of capitalist and colonial beauty standards, huh? 🙄

[Video description: Sam is wearing a black t-shirt, brown pants, and have their dark hair pulled back. They walk into frame and sit down on the couch, and then look at the camera and put both their thumbs up. The words “You’re so quiet.” and “Yeah… the internet is starting to feel a whole lot like ‘nothing tastes as good as skinny feels’ again, and I’m just over here making sure other ✨fat baddies✨ know they’re safe, welcome, and valid.” are on the screen in black/white font.]

Honestly, the world could really do with more buying flowers for and kissing friends rn.

[Image description: The words “normalise. platonic. intimacy.” in beige font on an olive green background.]

🫶🏻

[Video description: A collection of eight videos, some of Sam, some of Ziggy, and some of nature/the garden. There are words on the screen in black/white font which list the following:
This and LGBTQIA+ rights
This and the eradication of fatphobia
This and period/pelvic pain being taken seriously the first time
This and everyone having access to reproductive healthcare
This and accessibility being the norm
This and not having to ask for affirmative consent
This and trans rights as human rights
This and wondering why all of this isn’t just common sense?]

and that’s the tea ☕

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… and proud 🥹

Just waiting for all the queer and plus-size baddies to come join me ❤️‍🔥

[Video description: Sam is wearing a black t-shirt, brown pants, and have their dark hair pulled back. The first shot is a close up of their face whilst they set up the camera, and the second is of them standing up and looking at the camera. The words “Allow me to re-introduce myself:” are on the screen in black/white font, followed by the following list of values:
Queer 🌈
Fat 🧸
Anti-diet 🚫🍽️
Pro-choice ✊🏻
Body neutral ⚖️
S*x-positive 💋
Gender expansive 🏳️‍⚧️
Community builder 🧑🏻‍🤝‍🧑🏽
Living with chronic illness 💊
Proud cat parent 😻
Nature lover 🌿
Artist 🎨
Eternal student 🤓]

Queer as in trans lives are sacred. Queer as in fighting for a world where every gender is celebrated. Queer as in love, liberation, and unapologetic existence.

[Image description: The words “queer as in trans lives are sacred” in beige font on an orange background.]

About a year ago, I took a leap and had a branding photoshoot… something I’d put off for years!

As a fat person, stepping in front of the camera felt both terrifying and empowering. It wasn’t just about capturing the business, it was about showing up fully as myself, unapologetically, and embracing my body and all that it represents 💫

Looking back, it was a defining moment in my business journey. It wasn’t just about the photos; it was about affirming my worth, my business, and the community I aim to serve.

Here’s to more moments of growth, more leaps of faith, and always taking up space ❤️‍🔥

📸 = @alannapennaphotography

[Video description: A video of Sam holding a blue ceramic mug whilst looking at the camera, followed by several still images from a branding photoshoot. Sam is a fat person, wearing a variety of outfits, with dark brown hair and glasses. The words “Almost one year ago I did a branding photoshoot to kick off this incredible journey of starting my small business…” and “Here’s some of my favourite photos in one place, because I don’t think I’ve shared them all yet:” are on the screen in black/white font.]

🤷🏻

[Image description: The words “picking out clothes like: ‘how gay am I gonna be today?’” in orange font on a pale blue background.]

“some flavour of not-cishet” is my new favourite identifier 💅🏼

[Video description: A POV shot of Sam’s legs whilst walking down the street. They are wearing black/white gingham pants and beige birkenstock clogs. The words “I truly love how queer can mean “I’m some flavour of not-cishet but I don’t care to know the specifics beyond that” and also “I absolutely do know the specifics but we will be here all damn day if we get into it”.” are on the screen in black/white font.]

SAY IT WITH ME!!!

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We’ve been having a little extra fun in my stories this year, and I thought it was about time we shared the love on the grid too! [the last one is my personal fav 😏]

✨ FEEL GOOD FRIDAY ✨

Here’s some of my favourite submissions from your wins (big or small) so far in 2025. In return, each week I share some of my favourite content with you in my stories (from silly goose wholesome to straight up horny) ❤️‍🔥

Why not join us next time?

Like, it’s not that hard 💁🏻

Btw biiiiiiig middle finger to Google (and every other fascist big corp/media company).

[Image description: Slide 1 - The words “I love respecting people’s names and pronouns. It’s fun, easy, and totally free.” in orange font on a pale blue background. Slides 2-4 - A screenshot of a Threads post on a pale blue background.]

OR

…I’m literally just challenging harmful biases and doing what every therapist should be doing.

OR

…I’m literally just providing the compassionate, non-judgemental care that everyone deserves.

OR

…I’m literally just challenging weight stigma and rejecting fatphobic narratives that shouldn’t exist in therapy to begin with.

[Video description: Several videos of Sam setting up their camera, ready to show their outfit. The words “When people say I’m so brave for being a fat-inclusive therapist, but I’m literally just refusing to uphold a system that devalues people based on their body size.” are on the screen in black/white font.]

a little shareable tile, since apparently some people need the history lesson 🙄

[Image description: There are four slides, each describing a different group of people “queer/trans/non-binary/gender expansive” followed by “have always been here” in beige font on an orange background.]

Did you know trauma doesn’t just live in your memories and mind? It can also show up in your body too—especially during intimacy.

If you’ve ever felt:
—disconnected
—self-conscious
—or overwhelmed
during intimate moments, this is not your fault.

Trauma has a way of interfering with pleasure, and it’s something many folks, especially those navigating fatphobia or queerphobia, experience.

Here’s the thing: trauma doesn’t mean you’re broken. Feelings of hypervigilance or emotional disconnection? This is often a result of your body trying to protect you. It’s a survival response, not a failure.

The good news is, healing is possible. You deserve intimacy that feels safe, connected, and pleasurable. If this resonates with you, it might be time to book in for your first appointment with a s-xologist. Reach out today and we can start your journey together.

[Video description: Sam is sitting down with their computer on their laptop, talking to the screen. Sam is wearing a black t-shirt, brown pants, and has their hair tied back. There are plants in the background.]

just me? 😛

[Image description: The words “who else is a TMI enthusiast? nothing is too much information. I want every detail. I love knowing things.” in an orange font on a beige background.]

A little MUST HAVE guide for anyone navigating dating in a plus-size body (or wanting to date someone plus-size 👀)

TLDR; love yourself, date yourself, and never settle for less than you deserve. Fat bodies are worthy of desire, pleasure, and all the good things in between 💖

A little reminder 💭

As a Sexologist, I often emphasise how deeply our connection with ourselves influences every aspect of our s-xual lives.

Developing a healthy, curious, and affirming relationship with your own s-xuality is foundational—it’s where empowerment begins!

Understanding your body, desires, and boundaries is not just about personal satisfaction; it’s about self-awareness. When you take the time to explore what pleasure looks and feels like for you, you can cultivate a sense of agency over your s-xuality. This isn’t just about touch, it’s about listening to your body, honouring your needs, and rejecting societal shame around self-pleasure or s-xual expression.

Creating this relationship also means learning to communicate with yourself.

Ask:
🗣️ What brings me joy?
🗣️ What sensations feel good?
🗣️ What makes me feel safe and desired?

So, let me remind you: explore yourself, be curious, and treat your s-xuality with care and compassion 🫶🏻

[Image description: The words “don’t know who needs to hear this but the most important s-xual relationship you will ever have is the one you create with yourself” in beige font on an olive green background.]

This one goes out to my fat babes needing a little extra reassurance 🥵🥵

[Video description: A selfie video where the top of Sam’s head is visible at the bottom of the screen, and the rest of the shot is the interior of their car. There is text on the screen in black/white font.]

Let me be clear: your body, exactly as it is right now, is worthy of pleasure.

🫳🏻
🎤

Yet, in a world that constantly tells us our bodies need to look, act, or exist in a certain way to be ‘deserving’, the idea of embracing pleasure can feel radical—even rebellious.

Pleasure can take countless forms: the warmth of sunlight on your skin, the joy of movement, the taste of your favourite meal, the release of a belly laugh, or the intimacy of touch. It’s about connection; connecting with yourself, your desires, and sometimes, the world around you.

Society often weaponizes shame to convince us that pleasure is something for ‘other’ bodies... straight-sized, younger, or simply ones deemed more ‘acceptable’. But that’s a lie designed to disconnect you from your own power. By reclaiming pleasure, you’re not just rejecting these harmful messages; you’re embracing your inherent worth.

[Image description: The words “your body is worthy of pleasure” in orange font on a pale blue background.]

Mentally unlearning compulsory heterosexuality so I could finally experience queer joy and acceptance = priceless 🤑

[Video description: Sam is standing up, wearing a white t-shirt, brown pants, and their curly hair pulled back in a clip. The words on the screen read: “You’re so funny. Thanks! It took me years of mental gymnastics to realise my queer identity was an okay part of me, not the ‘sin’ religion taught me it was. Turns out it had everything to do with internalised homophobia and compulsory heterosexuality, not that there was something fundamentally wrong with me!”]

BIG fan of ‘lover�’ around here ❤️‍🔥

What do you like to call your babe when talking about them to others?

[Image description: The words “people need to just let ‘lover’ be the s-xy androgynous term that it is” in beige font on an orange background.]

How YOU can be a loyal ally to the trans & queer community right now ✊🏼🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈

[Video description: Sam is sitting down and talking to the camera. They are wearing a brown vintage tee and black pants, have their dark hair pulled back and are wearing clear glasses. The is a bed and a plant in the background. There are captions on the screen.]

🫶🏻 @evyan.whitney

[Image description: The words “my queerness is entwined with pleasure because being true to myself, to the wants of my body, feels good, and when I feel good, I feel free” in an orange font on a beige background.]

Queerness is freedom—for you and for others.

[Video description: The words “The gift of being queer isn’t merely realising your love can exist outside of gender and s-x, but that your life can exist outside the artificial norms society forces on everyone. Your queerness is as much a freedom to you, as it is a beacon for others to live freely too.” are on the screen in black/white font. Sam is filming a video on their phone whilst looking in the mirror, wearing a white button-up, black/white gingham pants, and a black belt with a gold buckle.]

& every part of you for that matter 👅

[Image description: The words “hot take: your fat rolls are perfect” in beige font on an olive green background.]

truly obsessed with my @jemimalongworth x @aplusmarket calendar. here’s to more delicious fat liberation in 2025 🌸

[Video description: The words “open & hang up my 2025 calendar with me! (sound on for ASMR and ziggy meows ” are on the screen in black/white font. The video is of a person opening a white envelope to reveal a new calendar and then flipping through it. The person then hangs it up on their fridge.]

for all my queer babes feeling it rn, there is no rush, okay? 😙

[Image description: The words “actually, there is no rush. and I have so much time to figure everything out.” in orange font on a pale blue background.]

communication + consent + enthusiasm = 🤤

[Video description: The words “quick psa: being “good in bed” isn’t about putting on some perfect performance, it’s about communication, ongoing consent, enthusiasm & believing that everyone’s pleasure is equally important” are on the screen in black/white font. Sam walks into frame wearing a white t-shirt and their brown hair pulled back, there are plants on the tiled wall in the background.]

✍🏻 official resolution of 2025, I don’t make the rules

[Image description: The words “2025 resolution: be a smutty menace” in beige font on an orange background.]

Babe, nothing is real.

Labels and language are just social constructs we created to navigate this wild, confusing world. When it comes to gender and s*xuality, labels can help give us a framework for understanding ourselves and others.

But, they don’t have to be rigid! They also don’t always fit perfectly.

People can exist outside the confines of a simple label, and that doesn’t make their identity any less valid.

So just role with it and let people exist. It doesn’t have to make sense to everyone. Sometimes the freedom to be fluid, ambiguous, or undefined is the best part of it all.

TLDR; labels? Totally optional, imho.

[Video description: The words “You’re not a real bisexu—“, “Babe, nothing is real. Labels and language are literally just social constructs we made up to help make sense of the chaos.”, and “Just role with it and let people exist xx” are on the screen in black/white font. There are three videos, the first is of Sam taking a selfie video, the second is of silver and light art installation, and the third is a POV shot of Sam’s shoes standing inside the art installation.]

To be fair, this isn’t technically BREAKING news. Fat babes have ALWAYS been cute.

[Image description: The words “breaking news: fat is cute” in orange font on a beige background.]

Just some of my casual sunday musings (aka: existential gender crisis) xx

[Video description: The words “CEO of questioning whether my gender as an afab person is confusing because do I genuinely identify as not-a-woman or do I just not identify with the negative images of women that have been shoved at me since I was born? Like, do I not like being referred to as a girl because that really isn’t who I am or is it because being connected to femininity comes along with some not great associations? And then there’s the question of am I really not-a-woman or am I just butch/masc? And then you get into questioning what gender even is to begin with? What is gender? What is masculinity? What is femininity? Is there anything inherent to either of them, or is it all socially constructed? Does gender actually exist? If not, why do I have such a complicated relationship with it?” are on the screen in black/white font. There is a black/white photo of Sam in the background wearing a black t-shirt and their hair in a bun.]

🔮

Image description: The words “psychic: starts reading my mind, psychic: this is f*cking gay as f*ck” in pale blue font on a dark green background.

The sense of belonging that can come from a group of marginalised people coming together is so transformative, it often feels like a rebirth 🕊️

Also, a little history lesson for those that might be interested 🤓🤓🤓

Queer Theory is the study of how society defines and polices gender and sexual identities. It challenges traditional norms, critiques heteronormativity, and fights against social inequality.

Coined by Teresa de Lauretis in 1990, Queer Theory draws from post-structuralism and deconstruction to distrupt rigid assumptions about gender and sexuality.

[Video description: The words “Here’s a queer theory quote I will never shut up about:”, “Sure, part of the queer experience is being othered, but an even bigger and more powerful part is belonging to the othereds.”, and “You belong to the othereds.” are on the screen in black/white font. There are a collection of videos shown of a recent trip to the creek, including watching the water ripple, winds move through the trees, walking along the dirt track, and Sam’s face at the end.]

PLEASURE > ORGASM 🌹

Want to enhance your ✨quality time✨ in the sheets?

Here’s one powerful approach: shift your focus away from reaching orgasm, and embrace the journey instead of the destination.

While orgasms can be an enjoyable part of s*x, they can also create pressure and turn intimacy into a goal-oriented experience.

This focus on “achievement” often undermines the more nuanced aspects of pleasure, like connection, relaxation, and exploration.

Most s*x experts will agree that embracing pleasure without the expectation of orgasm allows for a more fulfilling experience, being fully present in the moment, grounded in sensations and emotions, rather than seeking to meet specific goals.

This approach can reduce anxiety, promote communication, and foster a deeper connection if you’re connecting with a partner!

Acknowledging the value of the experience itself - rather than the outcome - can significantly improve intimacy and lead to greater satisfaction.

So next time you’re in the sheets, let go of the pressure and focus more on enjoying the ride, not just the finish line 🎢😏

[Video description: The words “Want to know one of the best ways to enhance your quality time in the sheets?”, “Orgasms are great but they can make s*x goal-oriented & create unnecessary pressure.”, and “Pleasure is about the experience grounded in the moment without future expectation.” are on the screen in black/white font. There is a video in the background of an open stained-glass window looking out to some trees moving in the wind/rain.]

Some lessons that keep reappearing — whether I’m helping others navigate them or unlearning old beliefs myself.

💬 Which theme feels most familiar to you right now? I’d love to hear in the comments.

🍃 I don’t owe anyone my conformity or explanation.

🍃 Boundaries are necessary for my safety and growth.

🍃 My body is not the problem, thin privilege is.

🍃 Queerness is liberation, not limitation.

🍃 Fat joy is radical and contagious.

🍃 Growth is cool. Rest is also cool.

🍃 My worth isn’t tied to cis/het normative ideals.

🍃 I have no control over how someone perceives me.

🍃 I can do it on my own, but I don’t have to.

[Image description: A photo of Sam laughing, they are wearing glasses, a white shirt, and cream blazer. The words “Lessons I’ve learnt as a queer person living in a fat body, who is deconstructing cis-her normativity…” are on the screen in black/white font. The remaining words are included in the caption of this post.]

Some of my favourite body neutral affirmations for beginners…

🕊️ My body is working for me today.

🕊️ My self-worth is not defined by my appearance.

🕊️ My body is where I live, not who I am.

🕊️ My body is allowed to change.

[Video description: The words “This is your sign…”, “To start giving yourself body neutral affirmations.”, and “Here’s how to start >>>” are on the screen in black/white font. The remaining words are included in the caption of this reel. There are three videos: the first is Sam walking and looking at the camera, the second is of the view whilst on a chairlift, and the third is a POV shot walking towards a waterfall.]

Want to drastically enhance your experience of pleasure? 😏🥵

Spend some time brainstorming how you want to FEEL during intimacy, rather than always focusing on what you want to DO.

This is a great activity to do by yourself, but can also be adapted to enhance communication and consent with your lover too ❤️‍🔥

Here’s some ideas to get you started:
✨ Intimate
✨ Vulnerable
✨ Passionate
✨ Desired
✨ Adored
✨ Submissive
✨ Safe
✨ Authentic
✨ Innocent
✨ Connected
✨ Healed
✨ Playful
✨ Confident
✨ Primal
✨ Free
✨ Worshipped
✨ Sexy
✨ Shameless
✨ Dominent
✨ Loved
✨ Powerful
✨ Curious

[Video description: The words “So let me give you some advice… steamy edition” and “Thinking about how you want to FEEL during your next steamy session… Will help you actually ACHIEVE that with your lover.” are on the screen in black/white font. The remaining words are included in the caption of this reel. Sam is initially shown to be looking in the camera wearing a white shirt and gold glasses, before then moving to a shot of them sitting at their laptop with a plant and artwork in the background.]

This is your sign to go find your people 🫶🏻

[Image description: The words “finding your people makes you realise there was nothing wrong with you” in orange font on a beige background.]

Rate your typical confidence level when it comes to queer dating culture below👇🏼

[Video description: The words “REAL TALK:” and “the definition of queer culture is not knowing if you’re on a date or not” are on the screen in black/white font. Sam has their hair pulled back and is wearing brown glasses and a black top. They are smiling at the camera.]

merry christmas and happy new year etc xx

[Image description: The words “all I did this year was become more gay” in pale blue font on a dark green background.]

Little Sam would be proud 🥹

ALSO, don’t give up on your dreams!

[Video description: The words “14 years ago a teacher at my high-school told me I was ‘wasting my potential’” and “today I’m living my absolute dream, educating and supporting folks every day around their sexual and reproductive health” are on the screen in black/white font. Sam is sitting in front of their laptop talking to the screen, whilst wearing a white button-up shirt and black/white gingham pants.]

Want to spice things up with a lover? Incorporating consent throughout your fun is not only a non-negotiable, but can be the biggest turn on if done well 🥵

[Video description: The words “Asking for consent is literally one of the hottest things you can do with a lover: Does this feel good?, Can I kiss you here?, I really want to…, Do you like that?, Should I keep going?” are on the screen in black/white font. There is an unrelated background video].

A little vocab lesson for you if you didn’t already know… 🤓

Third spaces are inclusive environments beyond home (first space) and work (second space) where people, particularly marginalised communities like queer folks, can connect, build community, and feel affirmed. These spaces foster belonging, creativity, and dialogue, offering a refuge from societal norms and pressures.

Because of my Social Work background, third spaces and community development in general are central to my personal and professional values. I love that they can offer connection, healing, and empowerment outside of institutional or familial pressures.

If you’ve been craving this sort of space for yourself, keep following along for something new coming in the new year 🤗

[Video description: The words “Not to be dramatic…” and “But we need to talk about the importance of third spaces for queer community.” are on the screen in black/white font. Sam is holding their phone camera, wearing a black t-shirt, brown pants, and their hair tied back.]

Even though I’m firmlyyy in denial that it’s almost December, here’s my ‘Here & Queer’ guide on how to navigate the holiday season.

🎄Set Boundaries (and stick to them)
If certain events, people, or situations feel draining or unsafe, it’s important to say no or limit your involvement.

🎄Lean in to Your Chosen Family
Not everyone has the support of family and friends during the holidays, and that’s okay. Whether it’s through a small celebration or simply spending time with people who affirm your identity, lean into that love and support. If that doesn’t feel accessible, have a go at connecting with online queer communities.

🎄Practice Radical Self-Care
Prioritise what feels good for you, whether that’s through rest, mindfulness, or simply saying “no” when you need to. Self-care is about honouring yourself and your limits, not just bubble baths and face masks.

🎄Engage in Affirming Rituals
If traditional holiday activities feel unsafe or unaffirming, try creating new rituals which nurture and celebrate who you are. It could be lighting candles, making a playlist of your favourite queer artists, trying a new craft, or hosting a picnic with friends who understand and accept you.

🎄Check in With Your Emotions
The holidays can bring up complex feelings—grief, loneliness, joy—and everything in between. Take the time to check in with yourself regularly. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, it’s okay to acknowledge those emotions and seek support.

🎄Joy is Revolutionary, and an Act of Resistance
In a world that marginalises queerness, finding joy and embracing pleasure is an act of resistance. Joy is not just a feeling—it’s a revolutionary choice to celebrate who you are. This season, give yourself permission to seek out moments of happiness, whether that’s through fun activities, laughter, or simply owning your authenticity.

[Image description: The words “here & queer, your guide for navigating
the holiday season” in beige font on an orange background.]

Say it with me: fatness and beauty are not mutually exclusive!

When someone hits you with “you’re not fat”, it just reveals their own internalised discomfort and bias around fatness 👀

Here’s why it’s worth unpacking:

1. Saying “you’re not fat” implies that fatness is something inherently negative or undesirable. The truth? “Fat” is just a neutral descriptor, like tall or short. Shying away from it perpetuates the stigma.

2. For many, fatness is framed by societal narratives that equate it with unattractiveness or unworthiness. So, when someone denies your fatness, they’re really exposing their own discomfort or inability to separate fatness from beauty.

3. By reclaiming “fat” as a neutral or even positive term, we dismantle the idea that beauty, health, or value depends on body size. Saying you’re fat and beautiful directly challenges the harmful system that says you can only be one or the other.

[Video description: The words “and then they go and spoil it all by saying something stupid like…” and “you’re not fat, you’re beautiful” are on the screen in black/white font. Sam is typing on their laptop, wearing a white t-shirt, brown pants, and their hair tied back.]

PSA from your fat-friendly s*xologist: Embracing diverse bodies not only breaks down these societal barriers but also fosters more inclusive attitudes towards s*xuality and self-worth, both within ourselves and with our lovers.

[Video description: The words “I lied. Put your clothes back on. We need to talk about how society, built on patriarchy and colonialism, has made us believe only white and straight-sized bodies are beautiful and worthy of love. So now, we have a whole generation of people in fat bodies believing they’re unworthy of pleasure, intimacy, and desire.” are on the screen in black/white font. There is an unrelated background video which features a cat.]

It’s a small world out there, folks 🫡

#queersinstraightfields #womeninmalefields

[Video description: The words “When they say they like you, but now you have to do the mental math of working out if they’ve already dated your ex.” are on the screen in black/white font. Sam is wearing a denim jacket with their hair pulled back, shown putting on their headphones and then walking away with their bag.]

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